in lit book cut disscution

in my lit circle we talked about the book cut and how its a really deep book with alot of emotions and how alot of people in the world have problums likes these but not everyone talks about their problums and how they fell about it but everyone thinks they should but i dont think everyone should some people might shared they feelings or problums and it might turn out bad so they just talk about other peoples problums because they cant handle theirs.one connection we talked about was how girls do such bad things to themselses? Is it a response to some kind of emotions or something they feel or being worryed about. Do all girls have some kind or problums? To me i think everyone has some sort of a problum or issue just no one talks about it .